Your Key to Success: Cultivating Social Intelligence

By |2023-11-14T15:04:30-05:00February 3rd, 2023|Categories: Growth, Leadership, Psychology Today|

Do you know that person who can walk into any room and seamlessly converse with others, regardless of their background? That individual likely has a high social intelligence. Arguably more important than a high IQ, social intelligence largely determines the quality of our relationships and is essential to our success. As a driver of our capacity [...]

The Happy Leader: Are You a Person of Character?

By |2023-04-20T13:13:44-04:00January 31st, 2022|Categories: Leadership, Psychology Today|

KEY POINTS Virtuous leaders, distinguished as ethical and value-laden, often wield far more power than their counterparts. When people and true fulfillment are second to outcomes and profit, virtue is neglected. The key to effective leadership is focusing on being a person of character instead of the main character. An all-too-common pitfall many leaders experience as [...]

The Ultimate Formula to Show Up to Life Everyday

By |2023-12-14T15:21:59-05:00June 14th, 2021|Categories: Growth, Psychology Today, Purpose|

"Laura, we survived the jungle for a year. We've got this!" At least, I think that is what Glen said. I was too busy staring in bewilderment at the barren grocery store shelves. "Hey! I found something!" he said with more glee than a kid on a treasure hunt. "You found beans?" I bounced over to him. "Better! Canned sausage from Vienna." I smiled at Glen, took the can from his hands, and said, "Forward progress only?" He [...]

Curiosity: Ask and You Shall Achieve

By |2023-12-14T15:30:43-05:00November 17th, 2020|Categories: Growth, Managing Yourself, Psychology Today|

"I have no special talents. I am only curious." – Albert Einstein We all have our ideas about what it takes to be a great leader. For some, assertiveness is critical. For others, having a vision is non-negotiable. But there is one seed universal to everyone by which all virtues are born. It is also one you are using right [...]

The Monk Chat from Thailand

By |2023-12-15T13:37:50-05:00April 15th, 2020|Categories: Growth, Managing Yourself, Psychology Today|

As we admired the north flank of the main chapel at Wat Chedi Luang in Chiang Mai Thailand, we came upon a most unexpected surprise on a cardboard sign reading “monk chat” hung from a cloistered area to our right. Our group of five sat in front of a 24-year-old monk from Mumbai who—as I’ve [...]

The Circle of Life Is Not What You Think

By |2023-12-15T13:38:26-05:00April 14th, 2020|Categories: Growth, Managing Yourself, Psychology Today|

You rush from meeting to meeting, eat lunch at your desk, and need a texting helmet as you bolt down the sidewalk. I must admit I have had a losing confrontation with a parking meter once before—not as bad as a friend who lost a tooth to a light post. This type of behavior is [...]

5 Tools to Convert Uncertainty Into Rocket Fuel

By |2023-12-15T13:38:55-05:00April 9th, 2020|Categories: Growth, Psychology Today|

As kids in Hawaii, we encountered new adventures every weekend—new underwater caves, trails, and cliffs from which to dive. Every new challenge inspired excitement and uncertainty—much like the rewarding steps we take in our lives and professions. Cliffs were an especially prickly animal, for example. We would first swim the pool below for jutting rocks, [...]

Fear, Fame, and Fortune

By |2023-12-15T13:44:32-05:00March 24th, 2020|Categories: Growth, Psychology Today, Purpose|

What would your life be like without fear? Would you have a better career and more money? More fun through great life leaps and bold successes in your conquest of the opposite sex? More and better relationships because you left behind the fear of being hurt? We hear individuals’ barriers to their dreams every day, and fear is always at their [...]

Respond or React?: Where the True Performance Gap Lies

By |2023-12-15T13:47:40-05:00March 17th, 2020|Categories: Managing Yourself, Psychology Today|

COVID-19 is an event that has created strain in every aspect of life—an understatement, of course. That strain in pivotal times creates a natural fight or flight or response—or response or reaction—that truly separates the winners from the losers. This is exemplified by Warren Buffett, who has stuck to his guns through thick and thin [...]

How to Stay Focused and Achieve What You Want

By |2023-12-15T13:50:56-05:00March 7th, 2020|Categories: Growth, Psychology Today|

Fresh Air Source: Shutterstock Creating goals keeps you productive, but it is important to make sure you don’t overload yourself with too many or unrealistic ambitions. What’s more, wanting to do something is step 0. Step 1 is getting started, and that doesn’t happen without a calm mind and a view of what lies ahead. The steps [...]

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